Gosh - Far more difficult than I realised!!
Definitely not donor 3, though preferrable for education and hobbies etc I don't think Mexican is a good idea - Would prefer the child characteristics to be more like mine if they are not going to hae a father around - Also when I think about the guys I fancy/meet not really Mexican....and if I met someone after having the baby would prefer it to look more like both of us if that makes sense (Doh..if the next man I date is Mexican...!!)
Donor 1 - What does Large build mean? Chunky? Fat? Broad? I like broad...lol..do like the idea of a sketch that the child can have - Give them something of their "father" but other than that he doesn't really say much about himself. Might prefer a bit taller. Oh other reason for choosing...occupation printer..my grandad was a printer..proven fertility...does this mean it would be more likely to work??
Donor 2 - We medium build and taller so that would give the child a chance of being taller than me!! Especially if a boy. Give more information about himself but no sketch. How important is that? If I were a child would I at east want something?On the flipside - Now the child can trace the father, maybe it isn't as critical. No proven fertility..humm...
At present have a feeling about donor 1.. have however asked clinic about alternate options...problem is that might just make my life more difficult!
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